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A few weeks ago, Kelly and I were discussing our usage of Facebook; we’re both pretty active on the social networking site. She’s on it for business purposes and making friends hungry and jealous of her culinary skills. Me? I use it to keep up with family and friends, as a filter for news worth reading and YouTube videos worth viewing. Despite our different reasons for using Facebook, one common thread we share is we both share photographs of our children and we’re getting to a point where we’re not 100% comfortable putting up pictures of our kids. Okay, maybe we never really were 100% about posting pics but with the frequent changes to Facebook and confusion over security settings, it’s becoming harder to tell who can see what.
I’d bet 8 in 10 infants born in the last several years has had a photo posted on Facebook. Likely a cute little mugshot at just minutes or hours old. I’m guilty as charged. There’s nothing wrong with it; it’s how our society communicates. Only thing is I’m concerned people will copy and use an image of my children without my permission. I’d be pretty ticked if I went on a vacation to Germany and found a picture of one of my girls promoting a local business (read this mom’s creepy experience). Heck, I’d be worried if someone randomly downloaded a picture to their hard drive, friend or not. Just weird, right?
So what are parents to do? We can’t stop sharing photos on Facebook. It’s one of the ways Bellani staff keep up to date on whose going to be transitioning from Prenatal Yoga to Itsy Bitsy Yoga.
Not to fret, we’ve got you covered. Here are a few tips for keeping your photos safe.
Select secure privacy settings
When you create a new album, make sure to select a security setting. You can select just your friends, make it public or exclude specific people. A good idea is to create a list within your friends list. On the right hand side of your newsfeed there should be a section labeled “lists”. Hover over the word “lists” until the word “more” appears to the right then click on “more”. It will bring you to a screen with any lists you’ve created and, in the upper right-hand corner, the option to create a list. I have lists for friends from different stages in life, family, business contacts and a few other silly lists. You could make photo sharing easy by creating a photo friendly list of friends. Bonus tip: Be sure to select a privacy setting for your mobile uploads album which is automatically created when you post pictures directly from your phone.
View profile as
This is a neat little feature I recently discovered. On your homepage, you have the option to view your profile page and any content you’ve shared as someone else. Somewhere near the right upper-hand corner of your homepage you’ll see a link for “view profile as”. Click on it and a box will appear where you can type in someone’s name. For instance, if you have blocked John Doe but just don’t feel confident he’s truly blocked, then type in his name and poke around your profile including photographs. Clicking on “view profile as” will also allow you to view your content as “public” so it will show you exactly what someone would see if say they found you through Google or through a friend’s Facebook page. Bonus tip: Do what I do and use this feature every time Facebook makes any major changes to make sure your security settings haven’t changed.
Share photos temporarily
I started doing this earlier this year and so far it gives me peace of mind. Upload your photos and leave them up for a set amount of time. I don’t really have a method for this other than every few weeks I remember to check what pictures I have up. So pictures of my kids stay up a good two to three weeks and then I delete them. It might seem silly but the less time they’re on the internet the lower the chances someone might steal my photos.
Choose your apps wisely
Third-party applications on Facebook, the ones which usually stop you and ask for access to your account, should be chosen with care. These folks are not associated with Facebook so there are no guarantees to what might happen when you make your information available to a third-party.
These are just a few ideas for keeping your family photographs safe on Facebook. Do you post pictures of your children on the mega-social network? Tell us in the comments what your personal philosophy is for sharing pictures of your kids and if you take any special precautions to protect those images.
Carla Molina, formerly a Bellani educator teaching gym classes to babies and kids, is a mom to two girls under 5 with a serious magazine addiction. Carla is a freelance writer passionate about families, parenting and babies. Currently, she’s behind the scenes preparing to launch Petit Rhody, a daily email and blog on all the family friendly fun you can find in Rhode Island. When she’s not writing about parenting or parenting, she loves a good book, a hot yoga class or a good trip to the movie theater, butter layered popcorn and all.